Single Status Update
The way I see it.
If a group is attacking you constantly BUT they give you demands, if you meet the demands and they STILL continue to attack you, THAT IS 2.3 worthy.
If you do not follow these demands or are not prepared to come to a compromise, of course they will attack you. That is NOT 2.3 worthy, which seems to be the case here.
OOC should never be used as a get out of jail free card for IC conflicts, we are all here to roleplay, not script play.