"People shouldn't rob me for my stuff, that's bad RP"
If you get robbed, are offered RP on a level that you would deem acceptable in any other situation, it is not bad RP, it is not Gear RP, it is RP. If you get robbed, and think, "there was no in character reason for that", the reason was you had shit, this is a survival game, and the person robbing you wanted that shit. By complaining about GearRP you are in fact putting your gear in front of the RP that is offered to you by whoever is robbing you. If the RP given is trash, in any situation, report the people involved and move on. This is DayZ, if you want to sit around and talk about pointless shit for hours with no fear of harm coming to you, you picked the wrong game.